A breakup is much like a death, and while I have limited experiences to base this idea on, I’m willing to believe that the longer one goes on, the closer the similarity.

When I found myself in Baltimore eight years or so ago, brutally broken up with by a man who would call me from the [...]

Hello everyone – if you’re just joining us now, it looks like I have to move out of state VERY soon, albiet quite unwillingly, because my fiance’s leaving me. I’m moving in my with dad, and will be losing some of my desk full of dildos freedoms to display smut because of it. Bringing a [...]

The weirdness in my WSTOTW has been slightly lacking, but fear not! Got a doozie coming up, courtesy of a soon-to-be published review on the Hannah Harper Titty Fuck-Her that Pipedreams sent me, along with the Alien Love Doll and my ill-fated Boobie Cake Pan.  (In the meantime, if you are jonesin for some sex [...]

So, here’s the deal.

I have a LOT of sex toys. I don’t mean in my personal collection, but ones that I physically have in my keeping which have never seen a Georgia O’Keefe or wang. They are keefe-and-wangless (excellent name for a band or apothecary shop, by the by) , and they are sad, like [...]

Sometimes you read something that just makes you stop, sit back, and say “Oh.”

The Elephant (Banner) in the Room

I’ve been angry, dear readers. I’ve been at odds because I have this anger that I can’t seem to snuff out entirely, but very much wish to. It is the cause-and-response emotion at seeing someone do something [...]

Okay, so, I only have one for you at the time of writing (hopefully I’ll dig up more, or perhaps my sexy, sexy readers might have suggestions), but it’s a fun one. Copy is basically the words that show up on boxes, in descriptions, etc. For the most part, they tend to be at least [...]

I am the first to admit, I am still very heavily on the side of “still learning” when it comes to genderqueer and fluidity. Like a person learning a new language through unexpected immersion, I am learning the “feel” and “idea” of the words with more grace than I am “book learning” them [...]

Very happy to say that Chilldils gets by with a little help from its friends!

Thanks to Duncan Charles Designs, Chilldils will be available for purchase soon – we’ll be announcing it both here and on Chilldils.com – so stay tuned.

-TC

So, I’m blessed in the boob department. I mention them, I poke at them, I laugh good naturedly at jokes directed at them. I recognize them as part of my body, but often don’t go out of my way to pay attention to them – they are there, the way a blouse or a backpack [...]